Tips for the Initial Contact

That moment when your ex tries to establish contact again is like walking a razor’s edge. They’ve been debating for days – maybe even weeks – about whether they should contact you or not.

Part of them really misses you and wants you back. Another part of them thinks that they had a reason for leaving in the first place.

You want to make sure that you continue to make them miss you!

At the same time, you need to stay as far away from anything that would make them feel like leaving was the right decision.

The biggest thing to do is play it cool. Don’t start bombarding them with calls or email or anything else. Don’t talk about getting together.

As hard as it is, you want to string them out a little.

I didn’t know it at the time but I was doing exactly what I was supposed to!

The key when they try to reestablish contact with you is to:

1. Play it Cool! Don’t freak out or overreact. Don’t assume that you’re about to get back together.

2. Stay elusive. Don’t answer their calls, texts, or emails right away. Make them sweat a little. Avoid talking about getting back together. And DON’T see them in person. Not yet.

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For all of this to work, you have to get them to reestablish contact or know how to make the right 1st move at the right time. If you’re not sure how to do that – pick up Get Your Ex Back Roadmap.